The Dialogue of the Heterae is an erotic Greek classic written by Julian (around 150 C.E.) which tells of a young courtesan being stripped and whipped by her jealous lover, leaving the marks of the lash on her skin, treating her as though she were a lowly slave.
The Greek heteterae (or hetaerae) where kept women, courtesans, or prostitutes. In The Dialogue and old courtesa is giving advice to a younger one who is just coming out of her teens. She tells her young protege that a man is not in love unless he sometimes sometimes beats her, slaps her, and tears her clothing in a fit of jealousy.
The young courtesan complains that if she so much as “walks in the shadow of another man” her lover is overcome with an “insane fury.” The old courtesan tells her this is a good sign, because it means the man is in love with her, and money will follow.
“Had you seen him beating me last night, would you but see the marks of his lash on my body now, you would not think him such a lover. Lover indeed! He whips me with more fury than the meanest slave.” (1928 translation, full text here , quoted under fair use doctrine)
ANALYSIS: This passage is not about beating for sexual pleasure as are the passages from the Kama Sutra which I quoted in an earlier post. The young prostitute complains that she doesn’t like being whipped by her lover, and the older one advises her to enjoy it as a sign that she has captured her lover’s heart. There is no mention of either of these heterae getting sexual pleasure from the whip. What about the lover who wields the whip. He does so in a fit of irrational jealousy. We might say he whips her to establish his possession of her. He tears her clothing and leaves marks on her body. Certainly this an act of domination on his part, motivated by his sexual intoxication with her and his need to control her. Whether the lover obtains sexual excitement specifically from the act of whipping her is never stated.
NOTE: Alternate translations of the work’s title are Mimes of the Courtesans, and Dialogues of the Courtesans . This literary format, in which an older woman gives erotic advice to a younger woman, became a popular erotic genre during the Renaissance, known as whore dialogues, which some scholars consider the beginning of “modern” pornography.